
Hello All,
Yet another great wedding on Saturday night!!! The whole affair took place at The Bell Event Center in Cincinnati. The Center is of course the Old St. Paul's Church that was built in the early 19th century and has been transformed into one of the premiere wedding/event places in all of greater Cincinnati. Paul and his staff are true professionals and leave no detail unattended to.
There were hundreds of candles through out the hall all twinkling as dusk approached and the lighting was subdued which was so romantic and a perfect place for the ceremony.
Brad and Amanda invited two-hundred of their family and closest friends to celebrate the evening with them. The ceremony was warm and heartfelt and when it was time for the Unity Candle Ceremony I invited the Moms to come forward to light the candles. This was really cool because they lit the outside candles and then gave each other a big hug - thus symbolizing a further unity of the families.
The ceremony is below in this post and please feel free to look.
Good Luck and God Bless.... Rev. BB
Please be Seated:
We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life’s greatest moments, to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love,
And to add our best wishes to the words which shall unite Brad and Amanda in marriage.
WHO GIVES THIS WOMAN TO THIS MAN?
Her Mother and I
Question of Intent:
Is it your intention that you come here freely and with out reservation to be joined as husband and wife??
It IS
Brad and Amanda, I would ask that you both remember to treat yourself and each other with respect, and remind yourself often of what brought you together today?
Give the highest priority to the tenderness, gentleness and kindness that your marriage deserves. When frustration and difficulty assail your marriage- as they do to every relationship from time to time- focus on what still seems right to you, not only the part that seems wrong. This way, when clouds of trouble hide the sun in your lives and you lose sight of it for a moment, you can remember that the sun is still there.
And if each of you would take the responsibility for the quality of your life together, it will be marked by abundance and delight.
You have chosen each other to be with the rest of your lives. You have each chosen the one person in the whole world who makes you the happiest. The one person in the world that you will grow with - in the good times and in the not so good times. You have chosen this one person to be your life long best friend, your lifelong confidant- the one person who will know all of the secrets of your heart and soul. You have chosen the one person that you will grow old with, You have chosen your one true love.
Vows:
Brad, do you take Amanda to be your wife? I DO.
Do you promise to love, honor and cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only unto her for ever more?? I DO
Amanda, do you take Brad to be your wife? I DO.
Do you promise to love, honor and cherish and protect him, forsaking all others and holding only unto him for ever more?? I DO
Today you will exchange rings,
a perfect circle with no
beginning or end. An outward
symbol to the world that
you have pledged your
love to one person.
A gift from your best
friend who has become
your spouse today.
A cherished ring
that will mean more
to you than any
other possession.
When you look at your
wedding ring think of
that one person who makes
you the happiest
and your heart will smile.
RINGS:
Please take the ring you have chosen for your Bride
Brad please repeat after me:
With this ring
I take you as my wife.
To have and to hold
In sickness and health
For richer or poorer
In joy and in sorrow
And I promise to love you
For as long as we both shall live.
Please take the ring you have chosen for your groom
Amanda please repeat after me:
With this ring
I take you as my husband.
To have and to hold
In sickness and health
For richer or poorer
In joy and in sorrow
And I promise to love you
For as long as we both shall live.
Candle Ceremony
I would like to ask the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom to come forward and light their candles.
Brad and Amanda, these two separate lights symbolize your separate lives, separate families and separate set of friends. I ask that you each take a separate candle and together light the center candle.
The individual candles represent your lives before today. Lighting the center candle represents that your two lives are now joined to one light, and represents
The joining together of your two sets of families and friends into one.
Brad and Amanda as the two of you have come into this marriage uniting you as husband and wife, and as you affirm your faith and love for one another, I would ask that you treat each other as unique individuals, that you respect the thoughts, ideas and suggestions of one another. Be able to forgive and to not hold grudges. From this day forward you shall be each other’s home, comfort and refuge. You marriage will be strengthened by your love and respect for one another.
To make your relationship work will take love. This is the core of your marriage and why you are here today. It will take trust, to know in your hearts that you truly want the best for each other. It will take dedication, to stay open to one another- and to learn and grow together.
It will take faith, to go forward together with out knowing exactly what the future brings. And it will the commitment to hold true to your journey you both pledge today to share together.
Brad and Amanda, as the two of you have agreed to live in matrimony, have promised to love each other by these vows, the joining of your hands, and the giving of these rings,
It is with great pleasure that by the power vested in me by the great state of OHIO I pronounce that you are Husband and Wife.
Ladies and gentleman Mr. and Mrs. Brad
You may kiss
The Bride and Groom have opted to NOT have a receiving line and ask that you join them for appetizers in the court yard and of course for the reception.